Passing Along Our Stories

Photo: Brian H. Gill, at his desk. (March 2021)

This is going to be a short one.

So far, I’ve had two ‘one of those weeks’ in a row. Our youngest daughter tells me there’s been a lot of tree and grass pollen in the air lately, so that may account for it.

Anyway, a homily I heard two weeks back and posted last week asked two questions:

“…What are you doing to pass on and give to the younger generation?

“Are you going to share your life story?

“Your vocational calling of how you met and allowed God to work in your lives….”
(“Our Vocational Calling” Focus on Listening to God for Our Vocational Calling > Disciples, Then and Now > Sharing Our Stories, Fr. Mark Botzet)

Those are good questions. Teaching kids skills, telling them what to do and what to avoid; those are good ideas.

But I think sharing our stories; what we’ve experienced and how we were affected — that strikes me as a very good idea indeed.

There’s nothing wrong with teaching skills and rules. But stories — telling stories is how we show WHY the skills and rules matter.

John Tenniel's illustration for 'Alice in Wonderland', Lewis Carroll (1866) A flamingo, Alice, and the Duchess. Dalziel Brothers, engraver.
“Every thing’s got a moral, if only you can find it.” “Alice in Wonderland”, the Duchess. (1866)

That doesn’t mean I think concocting ‘and the moral of this story is’ narratives is necessarily a good idea.

But sharing what we’ve learned with the next generation, that does make sense:


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About Brian H. Gill

I was born in 1951. I'm a husband, father and grandfather. One of the kids graduated from college in December, 2008, and is helping her husband run businesses and raise my granddaughter; another is a cartoonist and artist; #3 daughter is a writer; my son is developing a digital game with #3 and #1 daughters. I'm also a writer and artist.
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