Pope Francis and an Open Catholic Church

Frame from ABC News video: Pope Francis speaking with reporters. (August 2023)
Pope Francis: “The Lord is clear….” (August 2023) via ABC News

On his way back from World Youth Day in Lisbon, Pope Francis said that folks who aren’t perfect can be Catholics.

Since he was a tad more specific in how he expressed the idea, we got headlines like this: “Pope Francis restates Catholic Church is for everyone, including LGBTQ+ people” (ABC News).

This week I’m taking a quick look at the news, and a longer look at why I’m okay with being Catholic.


Pope Francis and the News

Pope Francis: Catholic Church is for everyone. ABC News (August 7, 2023)

Whether or not Pope Francis saying that folks who are not A-list material can still be Catholic is “news” depends on which definition is in play.

Among other things, “news” can be “a report of recent events”, “previously unknown information”, “something having a specified influence or effect”, or something else.

As I see it, Monday’s ABC News piece fits the first and third definition. Maybe the second, too, at least for some folks.

Pope Francis restates Catholic Church is for everyone, including LGBTQ+ people
Ines de la Cuetara, Phoebe Natanson; ABC News (August 7, 2023)

“LISBON, Portugal — In one of the most iconic moments coming out of World Youth Day, Pope Francis called on the hundreds of thousands gathered before him to yell back at him that the Catholic Church is for ‘todos, todos, todos’ — everyone, everyone, everyone.

“‘The Lord is clear,’ the pope insisted on Sunday. ‘The sick, the elderly, the young, old, ugly, beautiful, good and bad.’

“Taking questions from reporters aboard his flight back to Rome after a five-day trip to Portugal, the pope was asked how he could reconcile his ‘todos’ message with the fact that LGBTQ+ people are excluded from the sacraments. The pope answered the Church has laws, but is still a place for everyone….”

My hat’s off to ABC News. Although this piece mentioned the perennial pedophile priest story, there wasn’t the recital of past offenses that I’d expected.

That said, there’s plenty in the article for someone who’s looking for offensive tidbits.

“…On his first day in Portugal, the pope also met with 13 victims who were sexually abused as children by members of the Catholic Church.

‘Speaking with abused people is a very difficult experience,’ the pope said as he reflected on the encounter. ‘But it also does me good, not because I like to listen, but because it helps me take on their load.’

“He added the Church needs to ‘grab the bull by its horns’ when it comes to child sex abuse.

“The pontiff also shot down speculation that his eyesight was failing him, after he repeatedly abandoned his lengthy prepared remarks for shorter, off the cuff speeches. The pope told reporters he was just trying to connect with young people, who have a shorter attention span. He joked the homily can at times be akin to ‘torture.’…”
(Ines de la Cuetara, Phoebe Natanson; ABC News (August 7, 2023))

Taking a quick glance at those four paragraphs, I found four opportunities for being shocked, outraged and generally snitty. The pope:

  • Admitted that children had been abused
  • Claimed that listening to abuse victims helped them
  • Said the Church should do something effective, regarding abuse
  • Said that homilies (Catholic sermons) were “torture”!!!!!

The same person might not pick all four as a starting point for virtue signalling, and I’m wandering off-topic. Or maybe not so much. I’ll be talking about something that’s been inspiring ardent and angry rants — on assorted sides — for decades.

Another opportunity for displaying outrage was ABC News using the LGBTQ+ moniker, rather than LGBTI+, LGBTIQA+, or some other acronym that’s on a ‘preferred’ list.1

So: how come I’m not horrified at what Pope Francis said?

Basically, it’s because I’m a Catholic.

I think what the pope says matters. And that beings me to “infallibility”, something I haven’t talked about much since 2017.


Being Catholic —

Wiley Miller's Non Sequitur: Danae's notion of infallibility, Lucy's 'most disturbing image'. (February 2, 2013) via GoComics, used w/o permission.Some folks, Catholic and otherwise, may believe that “infallibility” means popes can’t make mistakes, or be wrong about anything.

That’s not the way it works.

Which is obvious, given our history.

Over the last two millennia, we’ve had popes and bishops who were Saints, and others who were anything but.

Competition for bottom place is pretty tight: but Benedict IX deserves special mention, at the very least.

Benedict IX was Pope three times between 1032 and 1048. He was kicked out twice and sold the office once.

Make that allegedly sold. We don’t have solid documentation, which doesn’t surprise me. Even in the 11th century, leaving a paper trail for corruption on that scale would have been imprudent at best.

Back to infallibility.

Infallibility applies when a pope, acting as the pope, officially declares a doctrine of faith or morals “by definitive act”. (Code of Canon Law, Book III, 749 §1)

The College of Bishops can do the same sort of thing, with similar requirements.

When a pope declares a “doctrine of faith or morals is to be held definitively,” it’s infallible. (Code of Canon Law, Book III, 749 §2)

Infallibility also happens when bishops exercise the Magisterium in an ecumenical council, working with the pope. After that, the doctrine applies to everyone in the Church. All those conditions must be obviously met. (Code of Canon Law, Book III, 749 §2, 749 §3)

The idea of papal infallibility is old, even by Catholic standards. As a dogma it’s a fairly recent development. The First Vatican Council defined it in “Pastor Aeternus,” issued July 18, 1870. Predictably, some folks didn’t like it.2

Two Millennia of Wildly Improbable Survival

Gian Lorenzo Bernini: 'Dove of the Holy Spirit' over the chair of St. Peter in St. Peter's Basilica, Rome; stained glass. (ca. 1600) anonymous photographer, via Wikipedia, used w/o permission.A few more points. Then I’ll get back to why I figure Pope Francis is Catholic.

“Morals” discussed in the Code of Canon Law aren’t limited to the zipper issues you see in tabloids.

It’s pretty much the same as “ethics.”

Rules like the Code of Canon Law are important, and serve to define how the Catholic Church works.

But I don’t think any set of rules could keep humans from mismanaging an organization into oblivion, given time.

We’ve had two millennia, and ample opportunities, to do just that. But despite occasionally corrupt management, the Church has endured major social, political, and economic upheavals — including the Roman Empire’s crumbling and the Renaissance.

Human institutions don’t do that.

After two millennia of wildly improbable survival, I’m inclined to believe the Church’s explanation for our continued existence.

We’ve had help.

“Divine assistance” is what holds up the Church. It’s also what makes papal infallibility work. (Catechism, 888-892)

That’s an extreme claim. But it explains how the Church survived Popes like Benedict IX.

The terms we use to describe this assistance have changed over the millennia. But we’ve known we wouldn’t be on our own ever since our Lord left. Before, actually. (Matthew 28:1820; John 14:1518)

Definitions

'Jesus Cleanses the Temple,' Otto Elliger. (1700) from Pitts Theological Library, Candler School of Theology, Emory University, Atlanta (Georgia); used w/o permission.The Code of Canon law is important, but it’s just a sort of operations manual.

What, or rather who, is important is Jesus. He’s unique: human on his mother’s side. His life, death and resurrection gives each of us hope for eternal life. And that’s another topic.

I became a Catholic when I finally realized who currently holds the authority our Lord gave Peter; and that brings me to the Bible, the Magisterium and Tradition.

That’s Tradition, with a capital “T,” which isn’t trying to live as if it’s 1947, 1066 or whatever.

Our capital “T” Tradition is the Apostolic Tradition. It’s a “living transmission, accomplished in the Holy Spirit,” passed along from the Apostles. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, 75-79)

Our heritage of faith also includes the Bible and the Magisterium. All of which interact. (Catechism, 74-95)

The Magisterium is the Church’s teaching authority, which came from Jesus; and is maintained through the Holy Spirit. (Catechism, 85-87, 888-892, 2023-2040)

Reading, studying and understanding the Bible is literally Catholicism 101. (Catechism, 101-133)

I put definitions of Bible, Magisterium and Tradition in the footnotes.3


— Acting Like it Matters

Photo of Pope Francis, via NDTV: 'Francis has pushed a series of reforms since he became pope 10 years ago.' August 2023)This Reuters/New Delhi Television article put a key point in their lead paragraph.

The Catholic Church is “open to everyone … but within the framework of its rules”.

Pope Francis Says Catholic Church Open To LGBT People But…
Reuters, via NDTV (New Delhi Television, a subsidiary of AMG Media Networks Limited, an Adani Group Company) (updated: August 7, 2023)

Vatican City: Pope Francis said on Sunday that the Catholic Church is open to everyone, including homosexuals, and that it has a duty to accompany them on a personal path of spirituality but within the framework of its rules….”

As I see it, this should be obvious.

I don’t have to be a Catholic.

But if I say “I’m Catholic”; acting as if I take what the Church says seriously, or at least trying to, makes sense. To me, at any rate.

I don’t mind the Catholic Church putting up with folks who aren’t perfectly perfect, since I’m still working on one of the seven capital sins:

GLUTTONY: overindulgence in food or drink. Gluttony is one of the seven capital sins (1866).
(Glossary, Catechism of the Catholic Church)

Make that working on several in the list:

  • Pride
  • Avarice
  • Envy
  • Wrath
  • Lust
  • Gluttony
  • Sloth/acedia

I’m getting opportunities to avoid wrath this week, thanks to another SNAFU involving prescribed medication. That’s a topic for another time.

Those seven sins are called “capital” because they lead, or can lead, to other sins/vices. (Catechism, 1866)

Happiness, Lust, Sin and Making Sense

Infrogmation of New Orleans's photo: Mardi Gras, New Orleans, 2019; lower Royal Street, French Quarter; 'Krewe of Dystopian Paradise'. (March 5, 2019)I’ll be sharing some counter-cultural ideas, but not in a conventional way. So I’d better explain a few things first.

Wanting happiness is natural. That’s okay. But being rich, healthy, and famous won’t necessarily make me happy. On the other hand, there’s nothing basically wrong with health, wealth, or any human achievement. (Catechism, 1718, 1723)

Wanting happiness and truth is part of being human. Searching for both will, if I’m doing it right, lead me to God. (Catechism, 27-30)

Being human is not inherently evil. And we’re supposed to be sexual creatures. (Catechism, 2331-2379)

“Lust” is not religious-speak for experiencing human sexuality. Not for a Catholic. It’s a “…disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure….” (Catechism, 2351)

Sexual actions, like anything else we do, involve ethical standards. (Catechism, 2331-2391)

Everyone deserves respect and reasoned compassion, not unjust discrimination. That said, homosexual acts are a bad idea. (Catechism, 2357-2359)

That’s homosexual acts: not experiencing such urges.

“The number of men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered, constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians, to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may encounter from their condition.”
(Catechism, 2358)

I don’t deal with that particular flavor of lust, but ranting against folks who aren’t just like me seems pointless. At best.

Sin is not defined as “stuff I don’t like”.

Sin is something that offends reason, truth, “right conscience” — and God. (Catechism, 1849-1851)

Humans and humanity are not rotten to the core.

Like all of God’s creation, we’re basically “very good”. But the first of us put our personal preferences over God’s will. That was a monumentally bad idea. We’ve been living with consequences of that choice ever since. God did not, however, change our nature. We are wounded, but not corrupted. (Genesis 1:27, 31, 3:119; Catechism, 31, 299, 355-361, 374-379, 398, 400-406, 405, 1701-1707, 1949)

Finally, Catholics aren’t Puritans.

“Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy.”
(“A Mencken Chrestomathy“, Sententiæ: The Citizen and the State. H. L. Menken (1949) via Wikiquote)

Although some of us act as if we were, and that’s yet another topic.

Wheat, Weeds, and What Pope Francis Said

Jraytram's photo: crepuscular rays in Saint Peter's basilica. (July 2008)I found a “working English transcription and translation of the press conference” on Vatican News.

One reporter specified that he was asking his question in Spanish. I don’t know what language had been used in other cases.

The point is that the text I had access to is a “working … translation”, so I figure some of the words and phrases aren’t quite what a native English speaker might use.

Anyway, I’ve put a longer excerpt from the Vatican News transcript in the footnotes.4

This one is on the long side, too, but I wanted to get the pope’s “everybody!” sound bite in context.

Pope Francis: ‘I prayed for peace in Fatima without publicity’
Vatican News (published August 6, 2023; modified August 7, 2023)

“…Q: Anita Hirschbeck – KNA
“Holy Father, in Lisbon you told us that in the Church there is room for everyone, everyone, everyone. The Church is open to everyone, but at the same time not everyone has the same rights, opportunities, in the sense that, for example, women, homosexuals cannot receive all the sacraments. Holy Father how do you explain this inconsistency between an open Church and a Church not equal for all? Thank you.”

“You ask me a question that concerns two different points of view: the Church is open for everyone, then there is legislation that regulates life inside the Church. He who is inside follows the legislation. What you say is a simplification: ‘They cannot participate in the sacraments.’ This does not mean that the Church is closed. Everyone meets God on their own way inside the Church, and the Church is mother and guides everyone on their own path. That’s why I don’t like to say: everyone comes, but you, this one, but the other one… Everyone, everyone in prayer, in inner dialogue, in pastoral dialogue, looks for the way forward.…”

“That’s why I ask the question: Why not homosexuals? Everybody! And the Lord is clear: the sick, the healthy, old and young, ugly and beautiful… the good and the bad!

“There is a kind of gaze that doesn’t understand this insertion of the Church as mother and thinks of it as a kind of ‘corporation’ that you have to do this, or do it in this way and not another way, in order to get in to….”
[emphasis mine]

There’s a lot going on here.

I’ll focus on the “everybody!” idea.

It’s not new. Jesus talked about not pulling up wheat along with weeds. (Matthew 13:2430, 3643)

And there’s this bit in Wisdom; discussing cosmic scale, God’s mercy and why the Almighty doesn’t promptly smite folks who don’t play well with others.

“Indeed, before you the whole universe is like a grain from a balance,
or a drop of morning dew come down upon the earth.

“But you have mercy on all, because you can do all things;
and you overlook sins for the sake of repentance.

“For you love all things that are
and loathe nothing that you have made;
for you would not fashion what you hate.”
(Wisdom 11:2224)

Not ‘Just Us’

Wiley Miller's Non Sequitur: Flo Pyle discussing rapture and a bar tab with Captain Eddie. It was rescheduled to October 21st, a reference to Harold Camping's fizzled End Times. (June 13, 2011) via GoComics, used w/o permission.Non Sequitur’s Flo, a rescheduled Rapture, and Eddie’s bar tab may not seem obviously related to recent remarks by Pope Francis.

The connection is that Gnosticism — the word comes from ancient Greek γνωστικός, gnostikos, “having knowledge” — spotlights personal spiritual knowledge.

Sometimes it’s secret knowledge: making believers part of an exclusive clique.

And that reminds me of folks who feel they’ve got an inside track on the latest End Times Bible Prophecy.

Seeing the physical world as basically bad, not at all like nice spiritual stuff, is generally part of the package, too.5 Gnosticism is a can of worms I don’t have time for this week.

Here’s why I brought it up. What got me thinking about it, at any rate.

“…I don’t like reduction. This is not ecclesial; it is gnostic. It is like a Gnostic heresy that is somewhat fashionable today. A certain Gnosticism that reduces ecclesial reality, and that doesn’t help. The Church is ‘mother’ receiving everyone, and everyone makes their own way within the Church, without publicity, and this is very important….”
[emphasis mine]

I don’t know what the “Gnostic heresy that is somewhat fashionable today” is. But I’m not surprised that someone’s given the old ideas a fresh coat of paint.

Since Francis (in translation) said “I don’t like reduction”, I’m guessing that this flavor of Gnosticism is at least partly about being an exclusive group. Which, again, isn’t new.

My guess is that what Pope Francis sees as unhelpful is an ‘it’s all about just us’ attitude. Coupled, likely enough, given Gnosticism’s track record, with a fastidious distaste for icky physical things. Like humans.


Sodom, Gomorrah, and Lot’s Guests — or — Evil is Not Nice

John Martin's painting, detail: 'Destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah', oil on canvas. (ca. 1852) from Laing Art Gallery, Newcastle upon Tyne, via Wikipedia, used w/o permission
“The Destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah”, detail. John Martin. (1852)

Although it’s been decades since a Bible epic featured a Sodom and Gomorrah story, I figure most folks in my culture recognize the names. I don’t particularly miss Bible epics, and I’m wandering off-topic again.

The silver screen adaptations are more-or-less-loosely inspired by Genesis 18:1619:30.

I’ll focus, briefly, on what happened when Lot invited undercover angels to stay overnight.

That night, Sodom’s citizens surrounded Lot’s house. They demanded that Lot turn over his guests, “that we may have sexual relations with them.” (Genesis 19: 5)

Lot refused, offering his daughters as consolation prizes. That’s when Lot’s guests pulled him inside, blinding the mob with something resembling a flashbang.

Then they told Lot that they were a demolition team, and told him to evacuate. Lot and his daughters made it out, Lot’s wife didn’t.

The last I checked, we still don’t know exactly where Sodom, Gomorrah, and the other “cities of the Plain” were. Or even if the places actually existed.6 The post-strike assessment suggests that there isn’t much left to find:

“The next morning Abraham hurried to the place where he had stood before the LORD.

“As he looked down toward Sodom and Gomorrah and the whole region of the Plain, he saw smoke over the land rising like the smoke from a kiln.”
(Genesis 19:2728)

So, how come God obliterated those cities?

My native culture’s answer is that the folks there were into unwholesome sexual practices. Which, given the Genesis account, seems likely.

But I’m pretty sure it’s not that simple.

Responsibility

Lucas Cranach the Elder's 'The Last Judgment.' (ca. 1524 (but not before 1520), 'meat grinder' detail.)The Genesis account also shows that Sodom’s citizens were actively violating rules of hospitality.

Isaiah 1:917 and Ezekiel 16:49 say social injustice, neglecting the poor, was the issue. Jeremiah 23:14 gives a short list of sins, including “…strengthening the power of the wicked, so that no one turns from evil….”

I’ll get back to the Jeremiah thing.

I could take my culture’s version of the Sodom and Gomorrah incident as a comforting reminder that I’m one of the good guys. Certainly not like the bad guys in those two sinning cities.

But I think Pope Francis made a good point, back in 2014.

Like everyone else, I can stand some improvement.

“‘Lent is a time for us to draw closer to the Lord,’ the Pope said. It is a time for ‘conversion’. In the day’s first Reading [Isaiah 1:10, 16-20], he said, ‘the Lord invites us to conversion; and interestingly he calls two cities harlots’: Sodom and Gomorrah. And he issues them this invitation: ‘Be converted, change your lives, draw near to the Lord’. This, he explained, ‘is the Lenten invitation: they are 40 days to draw near to the Lord, to be closer to him. For we all need to change our lives’.

The Pontiff noted how meaningless it is to excuse ourselves by saying: ‘But Father, I am not such a great sinner….’, for ‘we all have something inside of us and if we look into our soul we will find something that is not good, all of us’. Lent therefore ‘invites us to amend our lives, to put them in order’, he said, adding that this is precisely what allows us to draw near to the Lord, who is always ready to forgive….”
(“Christians without masks,” Pope Francis (March 18, 2014), via L’Osservatore Romano, Weekly edition in English, n. 12 (March 21, 2014))

Okay. I said I’d get back to Jeremiah’s “strengthening the power of the wicked”. Here it is.

When I decide to do something that offends “reason, truth, and right conscience”, I’m hurting human solidarity, wounding our nature and offending God. (Catechism, 1849-1850)

Doing so is a bad idea and I shouldn’t do it.

When someone else behaves badly, that’s their problem. But it may be mine, too.

“Sin is a personal act. Moreover, we have a responsibility for the sins committed by others when we cooperate in them:

  • by participating directly and voluntarily in them;
  • by ordering, advising, praising, or approving them;
  • by not disclosing or not hindering them when we have an obligation to do so;
  • by protecting evil-doers.”

(Catechism, 1866)

That’s why I occasionally talk about why bad behavior isn’t a good idea. Even though it’s not my favorite topic. Possibly because I’ve gotten well and thoroughly fed up with sanctimonious screed — old- and new-school — and that’s yet again more topics.

Allegedly-related posts:


1 Acronyms and news:

2 A little Catholic background:

3 Definitions:

BIBLE: Sacred Scripture: the books which contain the truth of God’s Revelation and were composed by human authors inspired by the Holy Spirit (105). The Bible contains both the forty-six books of the Old Testament and the twenty-seven books of the New Testament (120). See Old Testament; New Testament.”

MAGISTERIUM: The living, teaching office of the Church, whose task it is to give as authentic interpretation of the word of God, whether in its written form (Sacred Scripture), or in the form of Tradition. The Magisterium ensures the Church’s fidelity to the teaching of the Apostles in matters of faith and morals (85, 890, 2033).”

TRADITION: The living transmission of the message of the Gospel in the Church. The oral preaching of the Apostles, and the written message of salvation under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit (Bible), are conserved and handed on as the deposit of faith through the apostolic succession in the Church. Both the living Tradition and the written Scriptures have their common source in the revelation of God in Jesus Christ (75–82). The theological, liturgical, disciplinary, and devotional traditions of the local churches both contain and can be distinguished from this apostolic Tradition (83).”
(Catechism of the Catholic Church, Glossary)

4 An excessively long excerpt:

Pope Francis: ‘I prayed for peace in Fatima without publicity’
Vatican News (published August 6, 2023; modified August 7, 2023)

“In his customary press conference aboard the return flight to Rome from Lisbon, Pope Francis spoke to reporters about a range of issues….

“…Here follows a working English transcription and translation of the press conference”

Q: Anita Hirschbeck – KNA
“Holy Father, in Lisbon you told us that in the Church there is room for everyone, everyone, everyone. The Church is open to everyone, but at the same time not everyone has the same rights, opportunities, in the sense that, for example, women, homosexuals cannot receive all the sacraments. Holy Father how do you explain this inconsistency between an open Church and a Church not equal for all? Thank you.”

“You ask me a question that concerns two different points of view: the Church is open for everyone, then there is legislation that regulates life inside the Church. He who is inside follows the legislation. What you say is a simplification: ‘They cannot participate in the sacraments.’ This does not mean that the Church is closed. Everyone meets God on their own way inside the Church, and the Church is mother and guides everyone on their own path. That’s why I don’t like to say: everyone comes, but you, this one, but the other one… Everyone, everyone in prayer, in inner dialogue, in pastoral dialogue, looks for the way forward.

“That’s why I ask the question: Why not homosexuals? Everybody! And the Lord is clear: the sick, the healthy, old and young, ugly and beautiful… the good and the bad!

“There is a kind of gaze that doesn’t understand this insertion of the Church as mother and thinks of it as a kind of ‘corporation’ that you have to do this, or do it in this way and not another way, in order to get in to.

“The ministeriality of the Church is another thing. [It is] the manner of carrying forward the flock. And in ministeriality, one of the important things is patience: accompanying people step by step on their way to maturity. Each one of us has this experience: that Mother Church has accompanied us and accompanies us in our own path of maturation.

I don’t like reduction. This is not ecclesial; it is gnostic. It is like a Gnostic heresy that is somewhat fashionable today. A certain Gnosticism that reduces ecclesial reality, and that doesn’t help. The Church is ‘mother’ receiving everyone, and everyone makes their own way within the Church, without publicity, and this is very important….”
[emphasis mine]
(“Pope Francis: ‘I prayed for peace in Fatima without publicity’“, Vatican News (published August 6, 2023; modified August 7, 2023))

5 An old idea:

6 Sodom, Gomorrah and Bible epics:

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I was born in 1951. I'm a husband, father and grandfather. One of the kids graduated from college in December, 2008, and is helping her husband run businesses and raise my granddaughter; another is a cartoonist and artist; #3 daughter is a writer; my son is developing a digital game with #3 and #1 daughters. I'm also a writer and artist.
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3 Responses to Pope Francis and an Open Catholic Church

  1. I feel like it’s been a while since I read about articles that specifically go like that, and now, I got the urge to ask these fellow sinners demanding all the Sacraments: How humble would you push yourself to be for them? I mean, as awesome as God manifesting Himself through this world of ours is, I find myself unworthy of them even when I take them, especially thanks to my cisgender heterosexual male disorderliness and my middle-class ignorance, things which, thanks to both proud support and unforgiving detraction of such behavior from both myself and others, I often struggle to believe as sins I can humbly and lovingly overcome. To expect my fellow sinners to see whatever improvement I manage is already too much to ask, but somehow, we manage to witness such pieces of truth, and that is more than enough reason for me to be a Catholic. Would I need the Sacraments, then? I believe so, as it would be nice to be more physically on top of spiritually resonant with God. And in that previous statement is an implication that we often proud humans often miss: We take the Sacraments to improve our love, not to dignify our pride. The Sacraments are not a privilege to lord around, but a duty to be given meaning by. Just because we fools easily misunderstand and fail them doesn’t mean that we can’t understand and follow them. Otherwise, God wouldn’t have let Himself be on that most humiliating punishment of His time and place here on earth.

    • “…We take the Sacraments to improve our love …. The Sacraments are not a privilege to lord around….” – Indeed!
      As for “demanding” – I don’t know what’s behind what I occasionally read in the news. I do know that coming to Mass regularly is part of being Catholic: and so is receiving the Eucharist. When I haven’t messed up and stayed that way. Which is why, although the Sacrament of Reconciliation/Confession isn’t my ‘favorite’ Sacrament: I emphatically appreciate it.

      • I remember a priest I confessed to likening Confession to cleaning one’s own house, and so I also understand your struggle with it, Mr. Gill, especially as someone who feels like he often tries to evade chores. X”D

Thanks for taking time to comment!