{"id":9362,"date":"2025-07-26T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2025-07-26T00:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/?p=9362"},"modified":"2025-07-25T16:21:50","modified_gmt":"2025-07-25T16:21:50","slug":"arba-zeri-campbell-and-the-telephone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/arba-zeri-campbell-and-the-telephone\/","title":{"rendered":"Arba Zeri Campbell and the Telephone"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/estate-sale\/#the500\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20180615ff\/L-N-Kaas-Clocks-ca-December-2010-room02-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Brian H. Gill's photo: L. N. Kaas Company's (520 South Main Street, Sauk Centre, MN) work area, northeast corner. (ca. 2005) see https:\/\/www.brendans-island.com\/lnkaasco.htm\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A corner of my father-in-law&#8217;s workshop. (ca. 2005)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One thing I like about families \u2014 the one(s) I&#8217;m in, at any rate \u2014 are the legacies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In my dialect of English a &#8220;legacy&#8221; is generally money or property handed down from one generation to another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Legacies of that sort matter. My wife and I are in the process of updating our will, I suppose it&#8217;ll be wills, and that&#8217;s another topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But the legacies I&#8217;m thinking of aren&#8217;t worth much, in terms of taxable assets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Although each of us is a unique individual, we also inherit whatever&#8217;s in the genes of our biological parents: along with the experiences, attitudes, habits, values, and stories of the folks who raised us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I figure our oldest daughter suggested that I start sharing &#8216;family stories&#8217; here because she sees some sort of value in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anyway, that gets me to an ancestor \u2014 my father&#8217;s mother&#8217;s father \u2014 Arba Zeri Campbell.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He was, apparently, a lot like me. He liked high-tech stuff. But, being born 99 years before I was \u2014 in 1852 \u2014 our high-tech options were a trifle different.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Arba Zeri Campbell may have had, relatively speaking, more disposable income than this household ever did. Or maybe he and I shared interests that put getting new tech near the top of our non-essential priorities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Either way, he was the first person in his part of the world \u2014 northeastern Illinois \u2014 with a telephone connection. The <strong>first.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That&#8217;s an accomplishment. But it also meant that he had to wait a long time before he got any calls on his telephone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a name=\"families\"><\/a>Families: Barker, Hulse, and Campbell<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I did a little checking before writing this, and found &#8220;Arba Zeri Campbell&#8221; mentioned twice in my first search results: as one of the children of Erixna Barker, who married David Samuel Campbell; and as the husband of Eliza Carlina Hulse.<sup><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/arba-zeri-campbell-and-the-telephone\/#1\">1<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That may connect with my habit of referring to couples I know as &#8220;[woman&#8217;s name] and [man&#8217;s name]&#8221;. Then again, maybe not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also learned that Erixna and David had at least six children, one of them dying young:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Adelaide Louisa Campbell 1841-1844<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Zeno Adelbert Campbell 1843-1891<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Adaline Alice Campbell 1847-1918<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Arba Zeri Campbell<\/strong> 1852-1937<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lois Isabelle Campbell 1857-1923<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Earl D Campbell 1861-1861<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Again, like me and my wife: we&#8217;ve had six kids, and four of them are still alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-black-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-black-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a name=\"being\"><\/a>Being a Catholic Family: Just the Basics<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">All this family and genealogy stuff reminded me that I haven&#8217;t talked about how family, marriage, and all that fits into what I believe. Not recently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m \u2014 obviously, I suppose \u2014 a Catholic. So I think that family is important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;<strong>The family is the original cell of social life.<\/strong> It is the natural society in which husband and wife are called to give themselves in love and in the gift of life. Authority, stability, and a life of relationships within the family constitute the foundations for freedom, security, and fraternity within society. <strong>The family is the community in which, from childhood, one can learn<\/strong> moral values, begin to honor God, and make good use of freedom. Family life is an initiation into life in society.&#8221;<br>(Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2207) [emphasis mine]<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Any and all ideas there can be warped: &#8216;authority&#8217;, &#8216;stability&#8217;, &#8216;security&#8217;, even &#8216;freedom&#8217;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I could, for example, act as if my &#8216;authority&#8217; as a husband and father means I can do whatever I want. It didn&#8217;t, it doesn&#8217;t, and acting that way would be a very bad idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Basically, in a family, children have responsibilities. Parents have responsibilities. (Catechism, 2214-2220, 2221-2231)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Those responsibilities do <strong>not<\/strong> include telling my kids who they should marry. Or whether they should get married. Or what sort of profession they get into. That&#8217;s just one aspect of being part of a family. The Catechism devotes more than two thousand words to discussing what a family is, and how families should work: which I see as a good introduction. (Catechism, 2201-2233)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Again, &#8216;family\u2019 is very important to Catholics, or should be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another important point: my kids are people, not property. The same goes for my wife. And, for that matter, me. (Catechism, 2360-2379)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The &#8216;how to be a family&#8217; thing boils down to what Jesus said about &#8216;the whole law and the prophets&#8217;. I should love God, love my neighbor, and see <strong>everybody<\/strong> as my neighbor. (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/5#48005043\">Matthew 5:43<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/5#48005044\">44<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/22#48022036\">22:36<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/22#48022040\">40<\/a>; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/mark\/12#49012028\">Mark 12:28<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/mark\/12#49012031\">31<\/a>; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/6#50006031\">Luke 6:31<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/10#50010025\">10:25<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/10#50010037\">37<\/a>; Catechism, 1789)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Which, as I keep saying, is simple: and very, very hard to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve looked at why &#8216;family&#8217; matters and how it&#8217;s done before. But, like I said, not recently:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/covid-19-mass-and-marriage-its-not-all-about-me\/\">COVID-19, Mass and Marriage: It\u2019s Not All About Me<\/a>&#8221; <br>(March 16, 2021)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/a-family-visit-is-still-in-progress-kids-and-adoption\/\">A Family Visit is Still in Progress: Kids and Adoption<\/a>&#8221; <br>(February 1, 2021)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/weather-but-mostly-desks-and-principles\/\">Weather: But Mostly Desks and Principles<\/a>&#8221; <br>(January 30, 2021)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/where-have-all-the-people-gone\/\">Where Have All the People Gone?<\/a>&#8221; <br>(November 23, 2018)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/miscarriage-stillbirth-and-hope\/\">Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Hope<\/a>&#8221; <br>(October 9, 2016)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-black-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-black-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><sup><a name=\"1\"><\/a>1<\/sup> Folks in the family tree, and me:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Family Search\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/ancestors.familysearch.org\/en\/2M25-JKX\/erixna-barker-1823-1891\">Erixna Barker<\/a> 10 February 1823-31 October 1891<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/ancestors.familysearch.org\/en\/9N4H-CS2\/eliza-carlina-hulse-1856-1923\">Eliza Carlina Hulse<\/a> 1 April 1856-10 November 1923<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/ancestors.familysearch.org\/en\/LZXJ-2B7\/arba-zeri-campbell-1852-1937\">Arba Zeri Campbell<\/a> 27 November 1852-9 May 1937<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/ancestors.familysearch.org\/en\/MCJQ-6S8\/floss-adeline-campbell-1885-1966\">Floss Adeline Campbell<\/a> 25 March 1885\u201316 December 1966<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/ancestors.familysearch.org\/en\/LDD5-BWY\/bernard-gill-1921-2009\">Bernard Gill<\/a> 16 May 1921\u201325 September 2009<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Me: Brian H. 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