{"id":8804,"date":"2025-01-18T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2025-01-18T00:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/?p=8804"},"modified":"2025-01-19T16:45:57","modified_gmt":"2025-01-19T16:45:57","slug":"kids-a-subway-station-and-offhand-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/kids-a-subway-station-and-offhand-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Kids, a Subway Station, and Offhand Advice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/maps\/@37.7923671,-122.4093161,3a,75y,172h,90.11t\/data=!3m7!1e1!3m5!1sS2arXqjD-sBKGhT1Asllsg!2e0!6shttps:%2F%2Fstreetviewpixels-pa.googleapis.com%2Fv1%2Fthumbnail%3Fcb_client%3Dmaps_sv.tactile%26w%3D900%26h%3D600%26pitch%3D-0.10878169455071429%26panoid%3DS2arXqjD-sBKGhT1Asllsg%26yaw%3D172.00156914817745!7i16384!8i8192\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20241028ff\/20250115-SanFranciscoPowellStreet-March2022-658.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Google Street View's photo: Powell Street, San Francisco, California. (March 2022)\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A cable car on Powell Street. San Francisco, California.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the many things I liked about living in San Francisco was the city&#8217;s public transportation system.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t know about the situation now. But a half-century ago I could get up, eat breakfast, catch a cable car, connect with a bus, and be at work on time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting back was another matter. By late afternoon, agreement between the bus route schedule and actual running time was at best approximate. I got in the habit of walking toward downtown until a bus came along, leaving the bus near the Embarcadero Center, and walking from there. After a cup of coffee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Transportation_in_the_San_Francisco_Bay_Area\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" align=\"right\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20241028ff\/20250114-Civic_Center_UN_Plaza_BART_2022-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"InvadingInvader's photo: 'An A-class BART train pulling into Civic Center UN Plaza Station in November 2022.' (November 23, 2022)\"><\/a>My weekday routine didn&#8217;t involve BART, San Francisco&#8217;s rapid transit system. But I used my BART card fairly often, partly to get places faster than a bus would take me, partly because I liked the then-new system.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;ll admit it. I&#8217;m a technophile. So was my ancestor Arba Zeri Campbell. That&#8217;s a story for another day. The main point for today is that I was in the downtown BART stations fairly often. And when I was, it was during the less-busy hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a name=\"notreally\"><\/a>Not Really Advice: More Like an Observation<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bart.gov\/about\/projects\/cars\/why-new-cars\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20241028ff\/20250115-BART-40TH-ANNIVERSARY_1000px-658.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"BART.gov's photo: a BART train with passengers boarding. (1972)\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">1972: the latest in fast urban transit: a BART station.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One day \u2014 I&#8217;m guessing it was a Saturday afternoon, but that&#8217;s just a guess. Anyway, one day I was waiting in a downtown BART station.<sup><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/kids-a-subway-station-and-offhand-advice\/#1\">1<\/a><\/sup> I was alone, except for three other folks: two boys and an older girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m guessing she was their sister, partly because of their conversation&#8217;s tone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The two boys were sitting on the edge of the platform, dangling their legs over the tracks. The girl\/young woman was exhorting them to stand up and back away from the edge. Urgently, and unsuccessfully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She was getting frustrated, the boys were enjoying themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They might have had time to remove their legs from the area that&#8217;d be occupied by a train, since we were some distance from the platform&#8217;s end. Then again, maybe not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The boys were early adolescents, or thereabouts: at one of those ages where individuals in my half of humanity can generally be relied on to exhibit energy, enthusiasm, and an appalling lack of wisdom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wasn&#8217;t exactly sympathetic with the one I figured was their older sister.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The other half of humanity includes some individuals who, from an early age, exhibit a degree of poise and aplomb generally associated with international diplomats. She was not one of those individuals. Neither am I, for that matter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think it was when one of the boys glanced back at me that I said &#8220;helluva young age to lose your legs&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the time I&#8217;d finished saying &#8220;legs&#8221;, they were both looking at me: briefly, before scrambling up. Fast. They&#8217;d probably have been able to get their legs out of the next train&#8217;s way with seconds to spare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then the train I was waiting for came. I got on, and haven&#8217;t seen any of them since.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><a name=\"thatvoice\"><\/a>That <em>Voice<\/em><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/L5Doa-ovW88?si=C69MeSKuYuEQaSSC\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t, can&#8217;t, know why those two boys picked that moment to stand up. But that won&#8217;t keep me from speculating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/about-me\/brilliant-talented-and-on-medication\/#events\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20210209ff\/20210317-DSC08994-SaintPatricksDayAndMe--trim-329.JPG?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Brian H. Gill. (March 17, 2021)\" align=\"right\"><\/a>I suspect part of an explanation is my appearance. Even then, I had a bushy black beard: and had been using a cane for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seeing someone who looked like that \u2014 and might actually be one leg short of the usual quota \u2014 might have encouraged a re-evaluation of leg-dangling&#8217;s benefit-risk ratio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then there&#8217;s my voice. I could do a credible &#8220;Smoky the Bear&#8221; imitation in sixth grade, and sounded like James Earl &#8220;Darth Vader&#8221; Jones long before Star Wars opened.<sup><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/kids-a-subway-station-and-offhand-advice\/#2\">2<\/a><\/sup><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Come to think of it, Star Wars came out in 1977. I was in San Francisco during 1978 and 1979.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whatever their reasons, the kids got up and their sister(?) stopped fussing. I&#8217;ll take that as good, or at least neutral, news.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Talking about those kids and the station platform reminded me of another BART story, but that&#8217;ll keep for another time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, some vaguely-related posts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/grogu-a-christmas-stocking-the-liturgical-year-and-me\/\">Grogu, a Christmas Stocking, the Liturgical Year, and Me<\/a>&#8221; <br>(January 14, 2025)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/a-short-look-at-a-small-dog-and-another-week-in-minnesota\/\">A Short Look at a Small Dog, and Another Week in Minnesota<\/a>&#8221; <br>(January 11, 2025)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/war-peace-and-a-civilization-of-love\/\">War, Peace and a Civilization of Love<\/a>&#8221; <br>(November 12, 2022)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/appearance-ancestry-and-me-at-the-grand-canyon\/\">Appearance, Ancestry, and Me at the Grand Canyon<\/a>&#8221; <br>(February 12, 2022 )<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/off-the-rails\/\">Off the Rails<\/a>&#8221; <br>(December 22, 2017)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-text-color has-black-color has-alpha-channel-opacity has-black-background-color has-background is-style-wide\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bcx.news\/photos\/places\/shopping\/embarcadero\/four\/ground\/?file=Embarcadero_Center_Four_20121124_151556_B12_8254.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20241028ff\/20250116-Embarcadero_Center_Four_20121124_151543_B12_8253-658.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Bryan Costales' photo: 'Just inside 4 Embarcadero Center from the pedestrian extension of Sacramento Street was the Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf'. (November 24, 2012) (c) 2013 Bryan Costales, via bcx.news, used w\/o permission\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">A coffee and tea shop in the Embarcadero Center. Photo by Bryan Costales. (2012)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><sup><a name=\"1\"><\/a>1<\/sup> Mostly about getting around in and around San Francisco:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Wikipedia\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bay_Area_Rapid_Transit\">Bay Area Rapid Transit<\/a> (&#8220;BART&#8221;)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Embarcadero_Center\">Embarcadero Center<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/San_Francisco_Bay_Area\">San Francisco Bay Area<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Transportation_in_the_San_Francisco_Bay_Area\">Transportation in the San Francisco Bay Area<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/San_Francisco_cable_car_system\">San Francisco cable car system<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><sup><a name=\"2\"><\/a>2<\/sup> Voices from the past:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Wikipedia:\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Darth_Vader\">Darth Vader<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jackson_Weaver\">Jackson Weaver<\/a> (Smokey Bear&#8217;s voice, 1947-1992)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/James_Earl_Jones\">James Earl Jones<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Smokey_Bear\">Smokey Bear<\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Star_Wars\">Star Wars<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/Cr0AmV8Or_0?si=b_9jiz0NyKTMt8dl\">Smokey Bear \u2014 The Forest Has Many Things (1963)<\/a>&#8221; <br>Smokey Bear, YouTube.com<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One of the many things I liked about living in San Francisco was the city&#8217;s public transportation system. 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