{"id":2103,"date":"2017-12-31T01:49:09","date_gmt":"2017-12-31T01:49:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/?p=2103"},"modified":"2021-01-07T18:34:33","modified_gmt":"2021-01-07T18:34:33","slug":"presenting-the-holy-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/presenting-the-holy-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Presenting the Holy Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20130220ff\/HolyFamilyCollage20141226-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/>Today&#8217;s official name is the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s a mouthful, so folks around here generally call it Holy Family Sunday.<\/p>\n<p>We don&#8217;t see much of the Holy Family in the Gospels, or anywhere else in the Bible. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/2#50002022\">Luke 2:22<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/2#50002040\">40<\/a> \u2014 The Presentation in the Temple<sup><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/presenting-the-holy-family\/#1\">1<\/a><\/sup> \u2014 is one of the exceptions.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s today&#8217;s Gospel reading. The others are <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/sirach\/3#28003002\">Sirach 2:2<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/sirach\/3#28003006\">6<\/a>; and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/colossians\/3#59003012\">Colossians 3:12<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/colossians\/3#59003021\">21<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a lot to say about all three, but I&#8217;ll leave nearly all of that for another day. Just the first two verses from Luke are more than enough for a post:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;When the days were completed for their purification according to the law of Moses, they took him up to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord,<br \/>\n&#8220;just as it is written in the law of the Lord, &#8216;Every male that opens the womb shall be consecrated to the Lord,'&#8221;<br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/2#50002022\">Luke 2:22<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/luke\/2#50002023\">23<\/a>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4><a name=\"sinners\"><\/a>Sinners and Jesus<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jesus_and_the_woman_taken_in_adultery\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/201508ff\/20160312-792px-Jesus_und_Ehebrecherin-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>Jesus would be rankling the Scribes and Pharisees a few decades later. They accused him of breaking Mosaic law a few times.<\/p>\n<p>I suspect our Lord&#8217;s distressing habit of treating &#8220;sinners&#8221; like people also rankled, adding to their ire.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve talked about the woman caught committing adultery before, and what happened when Jesus reminded the &#8216;righteous&#8217; folks that their rap sheets weren&#8217;t blank.<\/p>\n<p>Reminders that sin can be forgiven still irks pillars of propriety. Sins they haven&#8217;t committed, or been caught committing, anyway. And that&#8217;s another topic. (<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/divine-mercy\/#sinners\">April 23, 2017<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/celebrating-mercy\/#pope\">November 21, 2016<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/the-virtue-trap\/\">October 23, 2016<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>The point of that digression is that Jesus had been following Mosaic law.<\/p>\n<p>No surprises there. Today&#8217;s Gospel shows his folks taking him to the temple because the law said they should.<\/p>\n<p>Our Lord also talked about what the law means:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;He said to him, &#8216;You shall love the Lord, your God, with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.<br \/>\n&#8220;This is the greatest and the first commandment.<br \/>\n&#8220;The second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.'&#8221;<br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/22#48022038\">Matthew 22:38<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/matthew\/22#48022040\">40<\/a>)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h4><a name=\"truth\"><\/a>Truth and Insomnia<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/repeatable-results-that-arent\/#science\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20170306ff\/20170321-Westerlund-2-Hubble-15-066-detail-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>I keep saying this \u2014 faith is willingly and consciously embracing &#8220;the whole truth that God has revealed.&#8221; (Catechism of the Catholic Church, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p1s1c3a1.htm#142\">142<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p1s1c3a1.htm#150\">150<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>I think following the rules is important.<\/p>\n<p>So is knowing what they mean: why I should read the Bible, go to Mass, and try to act like God and love matter.<\/p>\n<p>At this point I&#8217;d generally start talking about the Presentation, Mosaic law, and how the way we understand reality changes as we learn more.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not going to happen this week.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve had maybe one or two close approximations to a full and uninterrupted night&#8217;s sleep this month, and it&#8217;s catching up with me.<\/p>\n<p>Caught, actually.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been concentrating more and accomplishing less. More accurately, I&#8217;ve been making more typos than usual. Lots more. And tracking down information is taking longer.<\/p>\n<h4><a name=\"limited\"><\/a>Limited Knowledge<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/rejoicing-anyway\/#feelings\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20130220ff\/20150704-800px-Durer_Melancholia_I-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;m not overly-concerned, since I know why I&#8217;m not sleeping much. And often not sleeping very long when I do manage to drop off.<\/p>\n<p>Know <strong>about<\/strong> it, anyway.<\/p>\n<p>I had an extremely unpleasant experience during the Christmas season when I was 12. I can&#8217;t remember it, or a sizable block of time around it, but know what happened.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8216;down&#8217; side is that decades of major depression and PTSD started then.<\/p>\n<p>The &#8216;up&#8217; side is that I learned how to stay moderately functional anyway.<\/p>\n<p>That got much easier when my wife told me I should see a psychiatrist. That was about 11 years back. He stopped me before I&#8217;d finished listing disagreeable circumstances I&#8217;d been dealing with. Let&#8217;s face it, I&#8217;m a mess. (<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/rejoicing-anyway\/#feelings\">December 17, 2017<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/internet-friends-real-people\/#anything\">March 19, 2017<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>Basically, this post is going to be shorter than most I write. That wouldn&#8217;t take much, and that&#8217;s yet another topic.<\/p>\n<h4><a name=\"holy\"><\/a>Holy Family, not &#8217;50s Family<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/family-names\/#because\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20130220ff\/470px-Cleaver_family_Leave_it_to_Beaver_1960-329.JPG?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>All three readings today were written more than a millennium before &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Leave_It_to_Beaver\">Leave it Beaver<\/a>&#8221; first aired. Humans haven&#8217;t changed much since then, but our cultures have.<\/p>\n<p>Folks living near the eastern Mediterranean two millennia and more back used different customs and followed different rules.<\/p>\n<p>Their families weren&#8217;t organized like suburban American families in the 1950s, or my family in the early 21st century.<\/p>\n<p>The way of life reflected by the fictional Cleavers wasn&#8217;t wrong. And I don&#8217;t fear that my family is vexing God by not trying to herd sheep or grow figs.<\/p>\n<p>Central Minnesota&#8217;s climate accounts for some differences.<\/p>\n<p>But mostly it&#8217;s because we keep developing new technology \u2014 along with new social and political structures.<\/p>\n<p>Change happens, and that&#8217;s a good thing. (<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/we-are-many-we-are-one\/#change\">June 4, 2017<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/natural-law-our-rules\/#new\">February 5, 2017<\/a>)<\/p>\n<h4><a name=\"living\"><\/a>Living with Change<\/h4>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/navel-gazing-in-august\/#graveyard\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20170721ff\/20170324-deskduty-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>I&#8217;m quite sure that the basic unit of human societies will be the family when New Year&#8217;s Day, 4035, dawns.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also certain that families won&#8217;t work exactly the way they do now.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also inevitable.<\/p>\n<p>This universe keeps changing. That&#8217;s also okay. Magnificent as it is, it&#8217;s part of a much larger reality. And a temporary part, at that.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;The universe is transformation: life is opinion.&#8221;<br \/>\n(&#8220;Meditations,&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikiquote.org\/wiki\/Marcus_Aurelius#Book_IV\">Book IV<\/a>, Marcus Aurelius (c. 161-180 AD))<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There is an appointed time for everything,<br \/>\nand a time for every affair under the heavens.&#8221;<br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/ecclesiastes\/3#25003001\">Ecclesiastes 3:1<\/a> (c. 5th-2nd century BC))<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everything changes and nothing stands still.&#8221;<br \/>\n(<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikiquote.org\/wiki\/Heraclitus\">Heraclitus<\/a> (c. 535 BC-475 BC))<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Raise your eyes to the heavens, look at the earth below; Though the heavens vanish like smoke, the earth wear out like a garment and its inhabitants die like flies, My salvation shall remain forever and my victory shall always be firm.&#8221;<br \/>\n(<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/isaiah\/51#29051006\">Isaiah 51:6<\/a> (c. 700 BC))<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;ve said that before, and most likely will again. (<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/a-mixed-bag\/#dont\">August 4, 2017<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/advent-our-long-watch\/#building\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20130220ff\/summer_walk_by_meganerid-d5ka8eu-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>&#8216;The future&#8217; won&#8217;t be just like today, but I&#8217;m pretty sure it won&#8217;t be all that different. Not the basics.<\/p>\n<p>Nostalgia seems to be part of human nature; and harmless as long as we don&#8217;t let it get out of hand.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"given\"><\/a>Given what we know of how folks view change today and in days gone by, reactions to what&#8217;s happening as 4035 ends will be mixed.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure that some folks won&#8217;t like what&#8217;s happened since those wonderful days of yore \u2014 in the 4020s. Like the song says, these are the &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Good_Old_Days_(Macklemore_song)\">good old days<\/a>.&#8221; Fond memories of youth are okay. Trying desperately to drag the rest of us back, not so much.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"others\"><\/a>Others will be like me: aware that the present isn&#8217;t perfect, and profoundly glad that we can&#8217;t go back and learn why we left the &#8220;good old days&#8221; behind.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/renewed-and-expansive-hope\/#moving\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20130220ff\/Gentlemen_Prefer_Blondes_Movie_Trailer_Screenshot_34-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" align=\"right\" \/><\/a>I remember when some folks acted as if they&#8217;d read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/ephesians\/5#57005022\">Ephesians 5:22<\/a>, but not <a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/ephesians\/5#57005021\">Ephesians 5:21<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.usccb.org\/bible\/ephesians\/5#57005030\">30<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Some still do, but they&#8217;re not often taken seriously. And they certainly don&#8217;t have much influence on American society.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t miss the &#8216;good old days.&#8217;<\/p>\n<p>Recognizing that men aren&#8217;t women and women aren&#8217;t men is one thing. Imagining that &#8216;she&#8217;s smart as a man&#8217; is a compliment doesn&#8217;t make sense. Neither does assuming that girls shouldn&#8217;t take shop class.<\/p>\n<p>My father-in-law got an anxious call from the school when one my wife&#8217;s sisters was a teen. Replying to &#8216;do you know that your daughter wants to take shop?&#8217; he said &#8220;So? Let her!&#8221; These days, it&#8217;s my wife and son who have and use the power tools.<\/p>\n<p>I was going somewhere with that. What was it? Holy Family, insomnia, 50s sitcoms. Right.<\/p>\n<p>Men and women have equal dignity. I&#8217;m expected to love my wife as Jesus loved the Church. (Catechism, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p2s2c3a7.htm#1601\">1601<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p2s2c3a7.htm#1617\">1617<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p3s2c2a6.htm#2331\">2331<\/a>&#8211;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.vatican.va\/archive\/ccc_css\/archive\/catechism\/p3s2c2a6.htm#2336\">2336<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s more. Much more. But that&#8217;s all I have time or wit for today.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve talked about some of it before, more or less:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/rejoicing-anyway\/\">Rejoicing Anyway<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\n(December 17, 2017)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/raving-politics\/\">&#8216;Raving Politics&#8217;<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\n(September 17, 2017)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/navel-gazing-in-august\/\">Navel-Gazing in August<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\n(August 6, 2017)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/the-speckled-axe\/\">The Speckled Axe<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\n(April 9, 2017)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/internet-friends-real-people\/\">Internet Friends, Real People<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\n(March 19, 2017)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<hr \/>\n<p><sup><a name=\"1\"><\/a>1<\/sup> Pope Francis, about the Presentation:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20170523-Documents\/papa-francesco_20160202_omelia-vita-consacrata.pdf\">Feast of the Presentation of the Lord<\/a>,&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>XX World of Consecrated Life, Homily; Pope Francis (February 2, 2016)<br \/>\n(<span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\">From <a href=\"https:\/\/w2.vatican.va\/content\/francesco\/en\/messages\/consecrated_life\/documents\/papa-francesco_20160202_omelia-vita-consacrata.pdf\">vatican.va\/content\/francesco\/ &#8230; \/papa-francesco_20160202_omelia-vita-consacrata.pdf<\/a> (December 29, 2017))<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today&#8217;s official name is the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. That&#8217;s a mouthful, so folks around here generally call it Holy Family Sunday. We don&#8217;t see much of the Holy Family in the Gospels, or &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/presenting-the-holy-family\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":true,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[215],"tags":[64,84,145,69,140,85],"class_list":["post-2103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-being-catholic","tag-faith","tag-family","tag-holy-family","tag-jesus","tag-law","tag-mental-health"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7Dwtw-xV","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2103"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2615,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2103\/revisions\/2615"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}