{"id":10154,"date":"2026-06-27T00:01:00","date_gmt":"2026-06-27T00:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/?p=10154"},"modified":"2026-06-26T19:38:29","modified_gmt":"2026-06-26T19:38:29","slug":"passing-along-our-stories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/passing-along-our-stories\/","title":{"rendered":"Passing Along Our Stories"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/a-ride-in-the-library\/#myfather\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20210209ff\/20210317-DSC08994-SaintPatricksDayAndMe--trim-329.JPG?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Photo: Brian H. Gill, at his desk. (March 2021)\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is going to be a short one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So far, I&#8217;ve had two &#8216;one of those weeks&#8217; in a row. Our youngest daughter tells me there&#8217;s been a lot of tree and grass pollen in the air lately, so that may account for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Anyway, a homily I heard two weeks back and posted last week asked two questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;&#8230;What are you doing to pass on and give to the younger generation?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Are you going to share your life story?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;Your vocational calling of how you met and allowed God to work in your lives&#8230;.&#8221;<br>(&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/our-vocational-calling\/\"><strong>Our Vocational Calling<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; Focus on Listening to God for Our Vocational Calling &gt; Disciples, Then and Now &gt; <a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/our-vocational-calling\/#sharing\">Sharing Our Stories<\/a>, Fr. Mark Botzet)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Those are good questions. Teaching kids skills, telling them what to do and what to avoid; those are good ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I think sharing our stories; what we&#8217;ve experienced and how we were affected \u2014 that strikes me as a very good idea indeed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There&#8217;s nothing wrong with teaching skills and rules. But stories \u2014 telling stories is how we show <strong>WHY<\/strong> the skills and rules matter.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/archive.org\/details\/alicesadventur00carr\/mode\/2up\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/brendans-island.com\/blogsource\/20260101ff\/20260202-alicesadventur00carr_0152-trim-329.jpg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"John Tenniel's illustration for 'Alice in Wonderland', Lewis Carroll (1866) A flamingo, Alice, and the Duchess. Dalziel Brothers, engraver.\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">&#8220;Every thing&#8217;s got a moral, if only you can find it.&#8221; &#8220;Alice in Wonderland&#8221;, the Duchess. (1866)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That doesn&#8217;t mean I think concocting &#8216;and the moral of this story is&#8217; narratives is necessarily a good idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But sharing what we&#8217;ve learned with the next generation, that does make sense:<\/p>\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/death-birth-baptism-and-a-little-hope\/\"><strong>Death, Birth, Baptism, and a Little Hope<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; (May 23, 2026)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/respect-relationship-responsibility-and-stuffed-animals\/\"><strong>Respect, Relationship, Responsibility, and Stuffed Animals<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; (May 16, 2026)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/bonding-with-my-dad-our-way\/\"><strong>Bonding With My Dad: Our Way<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; (March 14, 2026)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/visiting-a-power-plant-learning-from-my-father\/\"><strong>Visiting a Power Plant, Learning From My Father<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; (February 21, 2026)<\/li>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/sewer-repair-and-applying-ethical-principles\/\"><strong>Sewer Repair, and Applying Ethical Principles<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; (February 7, 2026 )\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/brendans-island.com\/catholic-citizen\/sewer-repair-and-applying-ethical-principles\/#finding\">Finding Morals, Within Reason<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is going to be a short one. 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